It is general knowledge that we, men, tend to be given to exaggerating—like, say, when it comes to the size of our dick. It seems like simple enough marketing—in order to attract people, you need to paint an eyecatching picture of whatever you are offering. It should not come as a surprise to you then that girls too often tend to overstate qualities perceived as positive and gloss over some of the negative things about themselves.
Of course, being straightforward has its benefits too, in business as well as on sex websites. As always, the real question is how truthful should you be. And there is no clearcut answer to that. What we know is that most people, women as well as men, are less than absolutely honest. Here we have a list of the most frequent notexactlytrue things girls write in their profiles.
She Is DDF
In case you are unaware of it, this acronym means that someone is “drug and disease free.” You can often encounter these three letters on many casual sex websites. But what specifically does it signify? If we are talking about drugs, this DDF may mean that the person in question is not using intravenous substances. Many people do not even consider, say, cannabis to be a drug. If you want to be solid about it, just go ahead and ask the girl what it is she likes.
As for various health conditions, especially STDs, you can rarely be too sure. It is not that many people who use frequently adult hook up sites would lie about not having a disease; it is that the girl herself may not know that she has one. So, be safe and responsible, always stick to the rules of the safe sex and get tested regularly; as the adage has it, better to be safe than sorry.
She Is Not looking for Love
So, that nice girl you met online says that she is looking for a fuck buddy only. It very well may be the truth, as most people use adult dating sites for this very purpose. Yet, you can never be really sure about it. The problem with a casual relationship is twofold. First, the girl may be lying about it outright. It happens less often than many might think, but it still happens. Secondly, she may be looking for a onenight stand, but her intentions may change. Yes, it may come as a surprise to you, but people often change their intentions; person's feelings are also subject to change.It is good when both persons in a relationship are looking only for casual sex, yet in a number of cases, the whole thing is known to go awry.
There is a potential to experience an emotional trauma or to find the love of your life. Just keep this consideration in mind.
She Has a Ph.D. in English
There is a long list of books she likes displayed on her profile. Might it be that she is really crazy about them? Well, of course. It is also likely, however, that she wants to seem intelligent and wellread—just like, admit it, you often do. Do you think that everyone with a list of books on their profile actually read all of them? We did not think so.
This may seem unimportant to most guys, but there is a lesson to be learned here. If both of you are book nerds—great, enjoy your time together. But, on the other hand, if books are not the particular focus of your attentions, it is important to find out what other topics are of interest to your new acquaintance. Because otherwise you may end up in an awkward situation when you have nothing to talk about, and some people may find this uncomfortable.
She Is Exactly of Legal Age
Really? Are you going to take her at her word? Believe us when we tell you that you absolutely, categorically do not want to get into any trouble here. And, you know, teens are not generally known to be the most honest group of people ever. So, while it is a virtue to trust people, in this case, the smart thing to do is to ask for her government ID to make sure that your prospective partner is of legal age. It may seem strange, but most older women will see this as an expression of admiration. Just do not forget to tell her that she looks so stunning that you cannot believe she is any older than 18. You get bonus points for making it clear that you are a responsible guy. Most girls like that.
She Has This Specific Clothing Size
First, most likely you do not know much about women's clothing sizes. If so, let it be known that these sizes are inconsistent, convoluted, and hard to understand even if you aced your math and stereometry exams (stereometry is the science of measuring solid bodies, so, you know, very useful). Since different people have different ideas about what is sexy and what is not, these numbers may often be about some idealized version of herself the girl has in her mind.Just let it go: Do you care about numbers or about her actual looks?