Secret Dating: How Not to Be Caught

December 27, 2017

Today, it is rather hard to have clandestine contacts, especially online, if you are married or have a girlfriend. Modern technology makes the process of finding a girl you like easier but more evident to others. But do not feel disappointed. We can teach you how to be careful and not to be caught by your spouse.

Start With a Blank Slate

The most common mistake of many guys is finding a date with the help of social networks. It will be very easy for your wife or girlfriend to look through your messages and find everything out. Creating a new account on social networks is also a bad way to start. You can be easily found by other people. Remember that all the information your profile contains is not private. “What am I to do?” you will ask. We have an answer.The easiest and most reliable option for you is joining casual dating sites, which are catered especially for people who are into playing around. Paid or free casual dating sites can be visited by anyone, but no one can view your profile if they do not have an account there. While casual dating sites are the most secure way for you, do not forget about general safety regulations. Firstly, you should create a new email address, but do not forget to log out of it. Then, you should unsubscribe from the email newsletter, disable notifications and, of course, delete the signup email. And do not forget to clean up your email trash. Girls like to check it too, hoping to see the results of your indiscretion.


The history of your browser is a very important thing that can easily make you score an own goal. That is why you should be sure that every time you close your browser, you can live in security. However, cleaning up your browsing history is not a good way. It is not only hard but can also leave some troublesome evidence. Using a private browsing mode or going incognito is the best option here. If you use Google Chrome, just press CTRL+SHIFT+N to open a new incognito tab (For Internet Explorer and Firefox users, it will be CTRL+SHIFT+P). Moreover, you can use a private browsing mode in other web browsers, and it does not matter whether you use a PC or a mobile phone. How does it work? All your web history, cookies, and passwords are not saved. So, everyone who wishes to check your browsing activity sees nothing, as if you were not browsing at all. Visit casual sites through an incognito tab, and you will always be sure that no one will find out about it.

Phone Number

Your phone is the biggest risk. Surely, you can use a passcode option to be sure that your girlfriend or wife will never check all your private messages. But when a girl sees that her boyfriend is using a passcode, she starts to shoot questions at you. And that is not good. But even if you decide to confine yourself to a passcode, remember that the text of a new message can show up on your screen. Any girl will notice it. An extra cell phone is also a bad idea. It will not help you avoid tricky questions. Our recommendation here is to make all your arrangements through messaging on casual dating sites. It is the easiest and the most secure way. Especially, if your new date mate decides to call you, let us say, at night.

Surely, do not forget about common security measures that you should stick to while using online dating sites.If you are a novice in this sphere, check the Safety Tips that can be found on the majority of casual dating sites.